Thursday, March 12, 2015

Bridges...sermon given at Bethel AME Church

Sermon for Community Lenten service March 11, 2015

Psalm 133 King James Version (KJV)
133 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
2 It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
3 As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.

Ephesians 4:11-16 KJV
11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
16 From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.

(Gospel lesson next page)

Bridges!

(a bit about me―lay pastor etc..merger church, Pres/Cong. So Brenda & I are an ecumenical gathering all by ourselves!)

How good and pleasant it is when brothers and sisters dwell together in unity!
Brenda & I began this worship with this passage very deliberately. We have been planning and dreaming of this moment for a while now...we only met just over a year ago at an MLK Day event.

Some months ago pastor Tina and I were talking about the problems in Beloit, about violence issues and what if anything our churches can do about it. And we developed the idea of community wide thanksgving service. I called Pastor Brenda and we had that 1st service together at United Chruch on a sunday evening in November. We had folks from 7 different churches there!

So when we began the planning for these lenten services we worked hard to get back to having more churches represented.
Years ago I heard a pastor here in town quote Dr King that '11 am on a Sunday morning is the most segregated time in our country” and that statement is still true today. That statement haunts me...in part because I know that if I am not part of the solution, then I am part of the problem.

So I refuse to be a part of the problem any longer! We need some bridges across the gaps in this city and in this country.

our lesson from Ephesians reminds us that we all have different gifts and abilities. Apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds and teachers. Now some of us have a couple of those gifts. Some have gifts of hospitality, gifts of helps, the folks that work behind the scenes. Never EVER doubt that you are working for the kingdom if you are behind the scenes. Yours may be one of the greater gifts! And these gifts are given, our text says, to build up the body of Christ, until we attain UNITY. Unity!! unity of faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God. We are to grow in our faith together...then we will no longer be tossed about by waves...

our city feels as though we've been tossed about on waves. Waves of economic depression. Waves of unemployment, waves of there's nothing for me here attitudes....the bible story “can anything good come from Nazareth?” sounds familiar to those of us who’ve lived in Beloit for decades!

We, people of faith, struggle sometimes. We love our churches, but they may or may not be growing. Our faith may not be growing, we see trouble but we don;t know what we can do! We need a bridge! A bridge gets us from one point to another making it easier to get across something that is inconvenient, difficult or impossible. A bridge can help us form or preserve community. People are meant to be in community! A cord of 3 strands is not quickly broken!

Jesus is our Bridge to God!
Author Brennan Manning wrote that Jesus says to us, “Shalom, be at peace.. I understand your fears, your failures, your brokenness. I don't expect you to be perfect. I have been there. All is well. You have My love. You don't have to pay for it and you can't deserve it. ..You have only to open and receive it. You have only to say yes to my love-a love beyond anything you can intellectualize or imagine”

Prayer and the Bible are bridges to Jesus!
Our Gospel lesson for this evening is from Jesus' great prayer in John chapter 17.
Jesus has prayed for himself, and then for his disciples. And then he prays this:

John 17: 20-26
20 Neither pray I for these alone, but for them also which shall believe on me through their word;
21 That they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us: that the world may believe that thou hast sent me.
22 And the glory which thou gavest me I have given them; that they may be one, even as we are one:
23 I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me.
24 Father, I will that they also, whom thou hast given me, be with me where I am; that they may behold my glory, which thou hast given me: for thou lovedst me before the foundation of the world.
25 O righteous Father, the world hath not known thee: but I have known thee, and these have known that thou hast sent me.
26 And I have declared unto them thy name, and will declare it: that the love wherewith thou hast loved me may be in them, and I in them.

Jesus prays that all believers...all who will proclaim the name of Jesus will be One. Just as He and the Father are One.. God in Jesus and Jesus in God. That we believers may also be One in the Father and the Son for the Glory of the Lord~!
And that we are to be United because and through the Love that God had before the foundation of the world! BEFORE the beginning of time, God loved....because God IS Love. Jesus made this known to his disciples and to all believers for 2000 years now and into this 21st century....that we may be One in Him to glorify God.....

so how's that working so far?
Not so hot? Do you think we can do better?
I do!
I absolutely do. I think we can do a lot better. I believe our churches, can be bridges that help get us across some of these gaps.

I believe that we can do this as individual churches, and especially in our groups that work together, our Church Women United groups, our members that work together to support Caritas, and other pantries and missions in the city, when we work together to get school supplies to needy kids, we are better together than separately! This is real community. And as we work together, we get to know what we have in common! Then we realize we are all connected. Then we can work together even more effectively and enjoy each other's company while we do!

Then we are modeling effective behaviors to our city, especially to young people. Now I am not so naïve that I think our churches coming together for a few worship services and working on a few missions together is going to solve all the problems of Beloit, never mind the world. BUT we can and we will make a difference in people's lives. And we never know how much of a difference we may make! At a talk recently, I heard that most of the crime problems are because of addictions. I have read that there is new research which shows that addiction treatment is most effective in community-in groups, and that good groups can be a strong deterrent to addictive behaviors! You see why I am so hopeful that our churches can make a difference?

This is the “Communion of the Holy Spirit” ..the spirit of God, given by Jesus so that we can be empowered to use those gifts of evangelism, apostleship, teaching, and other gifts.
This is how we can bridge some of the gaps in our churches and in our communities! This is how we stay focused on the BIG picture!!

When we are very intentional about working together and worshiping together and helping out together, we are helping others see Christ, see the Love of God and that we enjoy using our gifts and talents together for good! We are then modeling community and outreach, we will then help other people, even young people believe in God, believe in themselves and to make better choices and become leaders instead of following in the path of crime and violence.

Remembering that we have a lot in COMMON, instead of what's different. We all have stuff to deal with!! families some of whom drive us crazy. We all have things that we have to cope with, we all have losses at times, maybe health stuff, maybe financial, maybe that crazy family member, everyone has SOMETHING that gets us down, that might hold us back. We can listen to one another. Sometimes JUST listen...and say yes, I understand. I'm here for you, I'm praying for you.
finding that common ground is our key to understanding, and growing, and glorifying God.

A story about a bridge...a few years ago we were on vacation and hiking around a park with water falls. And we came to a bridge that went over a stream that was maybe 20 feet below. And that stream was kind of dried up and you could see big rocks. And we had to walk across that bridge. It was a railroad trestle -no hand rails! so there were gaps in between the wood planks so I could CLEARLY see the water and boulders way down below...and yeah I freaked. It took my son and my husband both hanging on to get me across that bridge. Because I couldn't stop looking down.....i couldn't make myself look AHEAD.

We do that in our churches. We keep looking down, at the trickling stream, at the boulders, boulders of our own inadequacies, our insecurity, our own bias. We need to remember to look UP at Jesus. At His Shalom! We forget to look up and ask for help. Ask for someone to help hang on to our hands, and say a prayer, to help us cross that bridge! Because across that bridge are great things, and the view is spectacular! Can we hold hands and walk together?



Sunday, January 25, 2015

Sermon Oh Good Grief (United Church of Beloit 1/25/15)


Psalm 126
A song of ascents.
1 When the Lord restored the fortunes of Zion,
we were like those who dreamed.
2 Our mouths were filled with laughter,
our tongues with songs of joy.
Then it was said among the nations,
“The Lord has done great things for them.”
3 The Lord has done great things for us,
and we are filled with joy.
4 Restore our fortunes, Lord,
like streams in the Negev.
5 Those who sow with tears
will reap with songs of joy.
6 Those who go out weeping,
carrying seed to sow,
will return with songs of joy,
carrying sheaves with them.


Romans 8:31-39 NIV
What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34 Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written:
“For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”
37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

(intro) continuing our Sermon series on “Giving up our baggage”

Now I have to admit, I have some baggage...ok I have a lot of baggage. Many of us do! It's part of the human condition! I have worked hard to get rid of some of it, but there is more work to be done! So when I asked Steve which particular baggage I would be preaching on, he gave me a partial list to choose from. This was after a recent meeting and some of the folks were still there. I read through the list ...loneliness, weariness, anger, doubt, worry, anxiety; and said, “Bingo!”

we all deal with some of these at one time or another. Several of you have said you have a lot of them too! We are all a work in progress! Sometimes we get 'stuck' and just can not let go. Sometimes we are so used to having these things in life we can't fathom another way!

Oh Good Grief! We don't think of grief as being good...but it's sure common. Grief happens when we lose someone we love of course. It's also part of any sort of loss...job, health issues for example. and even part of change..even good changes. There is a process that happens through any change of life...

So let's look at our Psalm. This is one of the Psalms of ascent..that is one of the songs sung by the Jewish people as they ascended, walked to worship at the temple in Jerusalem. This psalm refers to the return to Jerusalem after the Babylonian Exile―more than 500 years before the time of Jesus. The Exile had lasted for 70 years! Most of those marched away from Jerusalem had died off, their children and children's children were the ones who returned to Jerusalem..so they were 'coming back home for the first time!” this psalm is a hymn of joy, the streams in the Negev means streams of water in a desert, parched land into vibrant life! Carrying sheaves..sheaves are bundles of grain, so that is symbolism of a plentiful harvest! that God had intervened and their deep grief and sadness had been turned into joy.

This is a theme in many of the psalms and prophets, that the struggles and despair that happen in life will turn into joy, mourning into dancing one psalm says! The troubles of life are not permanent. There is MORE!

So let's look now at our new testament lesson. This is from Romans, Paul's incomparable letter to the church in Rome. Romans is a book that is challenging, inspiring, will make you say WOW and Huh?! Sometimes all in the same breath! This is a part of chapter 8....
“these things...”... He says earlier...in Verse 18
“  I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.”
Paul is talking here about the struggles of life, the challenges that come with being human, and trying to live for God..for Christ.
{READ Romans 8:31-39}

NOTHING can separate us from the Love of God.....
this is a text that we share at funerals.. it's a powerful reminder that the one we lost is not lost for all time! NONE of us is, if we are in Christ! God who did not spare his own son...part of Gods very self!! Jesus who died. Who more than that was raised to life!
Now I confess when I read this at a funeral I do skip verse 36, the sheep to be slaughtered. That's a reference to Psalm 44, another psalm of the struggles of life.. that Paul's listeners would get....but modern families prob won't..

we are MORE than conquerors....imagine the power of hearing this read to you, when you live in ancient Rome, with soldiers in full armor always around! We are MORE than those warriors! Through the One who loved us...and Loves us and will always love us because God was and is and ever shall be!

So what does this mean to us and our baggage, to our grief?
Grief is part of any sort of loss, or change..even good changes. (marriage, births, church mergers...) There is a process that happens through any change of life...
most of us have heard the 'stages of grief” defined by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in her ground-breaking work. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. One of the things we need to be reminded is that our work through the stages does not happen neatly. It is rarely a set period of time, with an orderly progression through each stage, culminating in a sigh of relief and gratitude. Nope...in my experience personally, and with family and friends, as well as a pastor, it;s almost never a neat tidy process.

Our reactions to grief are in large part a reaction to something we can't control. Yes we love to be in control. We want things to be a certain way. When change happens, when someone is ill or dying, we are not in charge any more and it makes us crazy. We may complain about things, we may find something else that we do frequently to bring that sense of control back...years back, when my dad was dying of cancer, I realized that I was obsessively doing laundry. I got over that! It was something that I could keep on top of, my way of finding some sort of order in a situation that I couldn't handle.

When you are going through these emotions, pray about them! It's ok to say to God “I am hurting here!” or even “i am angry!” and it can help a lot to pray it out. It really is ok to tell God you are mad that God took your loved one...or whatever the situation is...It's not a sin to say you are mad at God. God has big shoulders. And praying out these feelings can help. It's helpful too to journal, write things down in a notebook.. journaling is a powerful tool to help with the grief process and in most life situations. And using support systems, like your church, Hospice counseling and so on, are great tools to help get us through, especially if you start to feel stuck at any point.

When we have these feelings one positive thing we can do is create a new tradition or new ritual to honor the past. When holidays come, maybe having a special ornament to remember your loved one. Giving to their favorite charity! Friends of ours have fundraisers every year for the Leukemia Lymphoma Society to honor the memory of their loved one who died of leukemia.

We commemorate the good events..celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. We have rituals for these celebrations. (NOTE when I suggest creating a new tradion or ritual to honor a loved one, I am saying we have to spend a lot of money! It's possible to do things that are very economical...even if it's serving their fave food at the holiday meal...getting out pictures and sharing memories...great way to commemorate losses and celebrations!

As I said earlier, our psalm speaks of -deep grief and sadness had been turned into joy. Not necessarily happiness, they are different. To be happy is more of a temporary thing, it's transient, it depends on circumstances. but Joy lives deep inside and is a recognition that things will be ok, that God is in charge. It's a realization of the big picture. We can have joy even in the midst of trouble or grief...i guess that is 'good grief.'

This week Ernie Banks died, the legendary Chicago Cubs shortstop. He was a terrific ball player, and also a person who was universally viewed as a happy man who people loved to be with. He was well known for his quote..."It's a great day for a ballgame. Let's play two!” That's more than happiness, that's Joy.

this week author Marcus Borg died. He was a prolific writer, sometimes thought of as a very 'liberal' theologian, but his writings showed a depth of faith in Jesus as Lord. -some so called liberal theologians seem to think Jesus was nothing more than a nice guy...but Borg's faith was much deeper than that. I want to share a quote of his with you...this is from his book Speaking Christian.
    “So, is there an afterlife, and if so, what will it be like?
I don't have a clue. But I am confident that the one who has buoyed us up in life will also buoy us up through death. We die into God. What more that means, I do not know. But that is all I need to know.”

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.


The One who lived, died, was raised from dead, is love, loves us always and will see us through it all and we will one day ALL be together with him! 

Friday, January 23, 2015

a new Friday Five from RevGalBlogPals
It’s official. If you’re in the Northern Hemisphere, you are experiencing winter. SO… tell us:
  1. Winter: What do you think about it in general? Do you love it? Hate it? Or say, “meh – it’s just another season!”
    I have lived all my life in Southern Wisconsin and I hate winter. I hate being cold, I dislike snow, I especially hate ice.....but I LOVE spring and fall, and one doesn't get either of those without winter. And I very much appreciate the beauty of fresh snow. Every season has beauty and my camera and I  like finding the beauty of nature all year round ;)
  1. Footwear: Show us or tell us about your favorite winter shoes/boots.
    I wear Crocs...old school black Crocs, because they are comfy on my achy feet, and Crocs do not slip easily on snow and ice :) but....they are ugly LOL
  1. Discuss: Pedicures in winter – necessity or silly? Necessary, tho my budget keeps me doing my own mani-pedis. 
  1. Toasty toes: Whether you knit your own or buy them, tell us what socks keep your feet toasty warm!
    ::::blushing:::  I am so boring...plain old white cotton sports socks.
  1. Driving me crazy: What do you wish the drivers around you would do to make travel during the winter months a little less nutty?
    Pay ATTENTION! Ice is not always visible! and your SUV, being very heavy is going to skid a LOT further than you think. 
BONUS: What’s the weather like out there? Share a picture so we can shiver or be jealous!
This is a pic i took a year or two ago by the river in town. Today looks pretty much like this :)  yes, it;s cold!



Monday, January 12, 2015

The Spirt Flows (sermon given at Sun Valley Pres Jan 11, 2015.


Genesis 1:1-5
1:1 In the beginning when God created the heavens and the earth,
1:2 the earth was a formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep, while a wind from God swept over the face of the waters.
1:3 Then God said, "Let there be light"; and there was light.
1:4 And God saw that the light was good; and God separated the light from the darkness.
1:5 God called the light Day, and the darkness he called Night. And there was evening and there was morning, the first day.
Mark 1
1The beginning of the gospel of Jesus Christ,  the Son of God. 
2  As it is written in Isaiah the prophet, 
“Behold, I send my messenger before your face,
        who will prepare your way,
3  the voice of one crying in the wilderness:
        ‘Prepare 
 the way of the Lord,
        make his paths straight,’”

1:4 John the baptizer appeared in the wilderness, proclaiming a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins.
1:5 And people from the whole Judean countryside and all the people of Jerusalem were going out to him, and were baptized by him in the river Jordan, confessing their sins.
1:6 Now John was clothed with camel's hair, with a leather belt around his waist, and he ate locusts and wild honey.
1:7 He proclaimed, "The one who is more powerful than I is coming after me; I am not worthy to stoop down and untie the thong of his sandals.
1:8 I have baptized you with water; but he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit."
1:9 In those days Jesus came from Nazareth of Galilee and was baptized by John in the Jordan.
1:10 And just as he was coming up out of the water, he saw the heavens torn apart and the Spirit descending like a dove on him.
1:11 And a voice came from heaven, "You are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well pleased."


Our Old Testament lesson is of course the very first verses of the Bible, indeed the word “Genesis” means “in the beginning”. It's so familiar, and so beautiful!

1:2 the earth was a formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep, while a wind from God swept over the face of the waters.

Formless void.....also translated chaos..... God creates order of out of chaos!
“Wind from God' Hebrew word is Ruach...which is translated spirit, wind, breath, this is the Holy Spirit, hovering over the waters...
a bit later in Genesis God will breathe the breath of life into the humans.

Mark's gospel first one written. Matthew and Luke wrote about 10 years or so later, expanding on what was in Mark and writing for specific audiences..Matthew writing to Jewish people, Luke to Gentiles (prob in asia minor) Mark was writing to get these stories DOWN, people had been telling about Jesus and each of the Gospel writers determined to get a good accurate version recorded, now that it was about 30 years after Jesus' time, the original disciples and witnesses to Jesus miracles and teachings were getting old and dying off. And there was serious persecution from Rome after Nero became Emperor.

{READ GOSPEL LESSON}

Mark 1, “The Beginning of the Gospel...” I think Mark deliberately used the word Beginning here! To echo the very beginning of the scriptures. John's gospel of course also echoes the 1st five verses of Genesis.

gospel.  A term meaning “good news.” The Greeks used this word for events such as the birth of an emperor or a major military victory. So when the authors of the NT used it, this was a means of saying, the emperor, the military, this is all temporary, there is REAL good news...the Good News of Our God, the one true God, not the pagan gods.

Mark 1:4 John appeared proclaiming baptism of repentance for sins,..

there was before this a tradition of cleansing, purification at the temple, which was for 'paying customers', wealthy people. John is proclaiming this for everyone! “all the people' from all over Judea -note, John did NOT offer forgiveness....that was the job of God alone, this was purely an act of repentance.

“clothing and locusts....” genuine prophet in the tradition of the Hebrew Scriptures, our Old Testament. Jewish people had not had a genuine prophet of God for centuries. John was perceived to be the real deal and they were ready!

in the wilderness.  John’s preaching in the wilderness symbolically reminds Israel of her covenantal origins in the Exodus. The Hebrew people were yes indeed wandering for 40 years, but God never left them through all that time. God was present as a cloud by day—protection from the sun! And a pillar of fire by night— providing light and heat, and protection from wild animals.

so John opened things up for everyone and anyone. And then Jesus came along...

and John tells the people, “I baptize with water but he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit. -John himself was 'filled with the holy spirit from before birth! He leapt in his mother's womb when she heard the voice of pregnant Mary....

and John (and others?) saw the spirit descending like a dove...and remaining on Jesus.

The Holy Spirit...flows..going where it pleases like wind or like flowing water...(metaphor used sometimes since we can see water flow, we can't really see currents of air! We only see and feel the effect! So flowing water helps us envision the spirit flowing.)

Jesus gave the disciples the gift of the Holy Spirit after his resurrection, when they were gathered in the Upper Room and he appeared to them, he breathed on them and said 'receive the Holy Spirit” --for their guidance.

Then the spirit appeared on followers-Christian Converts- 50 days later, on Pentecost...this time as tongues of flame above their heads!

The spirit is symbolized by wind, water, flames....3 of the most powerful forces of nature!

The Spirit serves as our Advocate...Prays for us, intercedes for us, helps get our message to God when we have no words...thank God!
Jesus gave this third person of the Holy Trinity, father son and holy spirit (or holy ghost) to be our advocate, our helper, our companion. And the spirit is there, available and will guide us if we ask. Sometimes I pray
quickly, Lord give me the right words, or tell me to be still...when someone confides to me. And often the stillness is the best help.. or the spirit may guide us to do something for someone,... whether we are to listen and just BE there, or even to pray with a friend, a neighbor, a church member....that is God working through us every day.

Spirit is voice of God, our intercessor, guides us, that little nudge that reminds you havent heard from So and so in a while... and when you call, they say, “Wow I was just thinking about you!”

“this is my son, beloved...”

God is Love. God's Son is Love and of course God's Son is Beloved...

we all are loved by God.
When we act in love, we are sharing God...that is what our faith life is all about!

author Anne Lamott who writes with deep honesty about her recovery from alcoholism and other things, and what she describes as teeny tiny self esteem issues...said,
  “I believe in two things, God and my friends. They are both Love, and they stay close to me no matter how awful I am being.
Both {seem to} have very low standards, which is all I have going for myself.”
-Anne Lamott

We are all God's Children, allow the Spirit of God to envelop you in that love, allow it to permeate your life and help shape you to share and care for others In His Name.

there are lots of references to the Holy Spirit in scripture, here is one of my favorites....
2 Corinthians 13:13
13  The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with all of you.
Communion..also translated as “fellowship”, “Sharing with”
the words for communion and community literally mean together with.

Author Dietrich Bonhoeffer in Life Together:
Christian community is not an ideal we have to realize, but rather a reality created by God in Christ in which we may participate. The more clearly we learn to recognize that the ground and strength and promise of all our community is in Jesus Christ alone, the more calmly we will learn to think about our community and pray and hope for it.’ 

There is some parallelism later in Mark's gospel that echoes this passage..the Heavens being torn open, the Spirit and the voice saying This is My Son...

Mark 15:37  And Jesus {On the cross} uttered a loud cry and breathed his last.  38  And the curtain of the temple was torn in two, from top to bottom. 39 And when the centurion, who stood facing him, saw that in this way he breathed his last, he said, “Truly this man was the Son of God!”


“the communion of the Holy Spirit” the spirit of God is what brings us together-with God and with each other. The Spirit flows, as long as it is not blocked! Acting in UN loving ways blocks it, unforgiveness blocks it...If we are open to the Spirit, it will flow through us, It will help us realize that we all have things in common, with other people, even people very different from ourselves! and helps us to look at those commonalities rather than the differences.

That is real community, that is how we will effect change in our own lives, in our churches, in our city and beyond! That is the REAL peace of God, having God's love in our hearts and lives, and serving, bringing God's Shalom to others-the perfect peace that gives protection, wholeness.


May it be so today and always!  

Friday, January 9, 2015

Friday Five topic: NEW

 NEW. (Friday Five topic from RevGalBlogPals.org) 
  1. If you have one, what is your new resolution?
    Lose the last 20 lbs! And I am rocking the plan. Regular exercise and healthy foods, whole grains, fruit and veggies at every meal, lean protein. Savor tastes, aromas, colors, textures. (stay away from the ice cream! Ben & Jerry, I have broken up with you!)
  1. Many folks choose a new word for a year’s beginning, as Marci’s congregation does with StarWords. Some let their word choose them, like Christine at Abbey of the Arts. Do you have a word for the year?

    My word for the year is Community. This has been so much on my heart and in my mind. In the past 2 years since our church merger, 2 things kept coming up in my reading and in worship...Keeping our focus on God first and foremost, and community. We are better together than separately, both as people and as churches--especially in outreach. And I am working with other pastors to bring more togetherness into our city through our churches.
  1. What is your new favorite exclamation/phrase at times of joy or frustration?
    Hmm, I don't have a 'new' exclamation or phrase....and I need to get rid of some old ones! taming my mouth is a full time job ;) My Dad always said the kitchen was Mom's 'cussing room' and I seem to have carried on that tradition pretty well.
  1. Do you have a new favorite food, or an old one you are newly enjoying?
    current fave is plain Greek Yogurt. I love it with granola and fruit for breakfast, and have been cooking with it, using it in place of cream cheese in dessert or ricotta in baked pasta. Works great, and cuts fat and calories!
  1. Finally, in general: what is your new favorite thing?
Putting a system in place to achieve my goals. It's great to decide something, but one must have a plan to make it happen! For example, I am reading through the Bible this year. I resolve to do so every year, and have read all of it, but never stayed with a plan. It ends up being sporadic. So I decided, I eat breakfast every day, why not set that as my reading time? I have my plan printed off close by and when I sit down to eat, I read. It's working great. And I have a checklist at night to mark off that I read, that I did my exercise and that I got in my 5 a day of fruit & veggies. That system is keeping me on task.

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Confession and renewal!

Confession...

As those close to me know, weight is a struggle for me. I was not heavy as a teen or in my 20s, in fact I could eat almost anything and not gain! but I slowly gained through my 30s and beyond. In my early 50s I weighed over 200 lbs. I am barely 5'3”...so yes I was quite overweight, obese. 

That was the end of 2007. in 2008 I lost between 25-30 lbs. Some crept back over the next couple years, but I kept off a total of 15 lbs. At the end of 2012, I was back up over 200 and not happy about it! Not all the way back up to 'morbid obesity” but definitely in bad shape. I reviewed what I had done in the past, mistakes & successes, did a lot of reading and research. My budget did not allow for joining a paid program. But online there is a TON of information, and some is even reliable! (a lot isn't! One MUST use common sense and do research. And ignore the TV doctors, who shill for their advertisers.) I didn't want to “diet.” I wanted to be healthy, to enjoy my family and to be able to serve God and serve my church for a long time to come. There is a site called Spark People that I had used before. It is all free to use. Tracked what I ate, tracked exercise. There is community support, good recipes. Lots of articles about motivation, nutrition info. They are ALL about helping people make good choices to live a healthy lifestyle, which is exactly what I wanted! They have recommended diets to follow, but with my allergies and general pickyness I worked out my own plan. Drink plenty of water. Have fruit and veggies at every meal, whole grains, lower fat, but use olive oil for the healthy Omega fats it provides. Lots of salads and fresh foods. Savor what I eat..enjoying the colors and textures, aroma and tastes. And a bit of chocolate...good quality dark chocolate is OK! That way one does not feel deprived :)

SO in 2013 I lost 48 lbs ::big smile!:: I felt great, following a healthy lifestyle, for maybe the first time in my whole life!
This year, 2014 I had hoped/planned to maintain over the winter and lose the last 15 before my 60th birthday in October.


Oops.... I didn't quite make it. I maintained over the winter, but...I have a thing for ice cream. And after a rough winter I celebrated spring. Some of those 'small servings, savored' gradually became larger, frequent servings.. and I wasn't as diligent about exercise. So about 10 lbs crept back. I am not blaming myself, but learned from the experience! I geared up in November and even through Thanksgiving stuck to my healthy eating, and have ramped up the exercise . I am back on the losing track. I am ready to make 2015 my best year ever. I know that after years-indeed decades-of failing to care for myself, it's something to commit to every day! Just as I read Bible passages and a devotion every single morning, I have to commit to care for myself in order to help serve God well. I am making 2015 new, as God makes all things new! Will you join me?  

Friday, December 26, 2014

Dec 26, Friday Five "Recovery Mode"

Friday Five (from RevGalBlogPals page http://revgalblogpals.org/)

  1. What’s your “chill out” foot gear? Slippers or socks? Or Birkenstocks? (Poem not intentional)
    (answer) athletic sandals (support for my achy-breaky feet) with nice fuzzy sox on chilly days.
  1. A holiday treat or beverage that just makes you say “AAAAAAHHHHHHH!!”
(a) I make cookies and brownies for Christmas, and this year the brownies were extra good. AND I replaced half the butter with plain Greek Yogurt, reducing fat and calories significantly. The texture and taste were great. This is now my go-to recipe.
  1. What sight or sound moved you during the season? (This can be good or bad.)
    (a) the first song at our Christmas Eve service was O Holy Night, sung by a tenor from our choir, with his wife accompanying on piano. It was beautiful rendition of one of my faves. It set the tone for the service beautifully and helped me feel so worshipful and enjoy the service. also seeing a young bald eagle pair that are evidently living near the park where i like to walk. 
  1. With whom did you enjoy sharing time with over the Christmas season?
    Older son. He and I got to just sit and chat 1 on 1 for a bit, it's been a while!
  1. Was there someone missing from your festivities? How are you doing with that?
    This is one Christmas our immediate family hasn't lost anyone. We've had a few rough ones in the past. So I am grateful to be able to remember those gone from a distance. I was remembering how when our boys were young we would be together with Martin's Mom & Grandma and my Dad and Stepmother. And M's eldest brother and his sons. It was fun and chaotic!
BONUS:
A photo of a bodaciously wonderful present, delicious food, or lovely place that was a part of your holiday.
Well, since i forgot to take pics of dinner or gifts, here is a pic of Ashley Kitty "helping" after we did gifts. 


Sunday, November 30, 2014

Hopes and Dreams Sermon given at United Church of Beloit Nov 30, 2014

Old Testament Lesson Isaiah 64:1-4 (ESV)
Oh that you would rend the heavens and come down,
that the mountains might quake at your presence―
2 as when fire kindles brushwood
and the fire causes water to boil―
to make your name known to your adversaries,
and that the nations might tremble at your presence!
3 When you did awesome things that we did not look for,
you came down, the mountains quaked at your presence.
4 From of old no one has heard
or perceived by the ear,
no eye has seen a God besides you,
who acts for those who wait for him.

New Testament Lesson 1 Corinthians 1:3-9 (ESV)
3 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
4 I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, 5 that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge— 6 even as the testimony about Christ was confirmed among you— 7 so that you are not lacking in any gift, as you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ,8 who will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.
Came across some interesting quotes from experts–
            "Everything that can be invented has been invented." 
        --Charles H. Duell, Commissioner, U.S. Office of Patents, 1899. 

    "Stocks have reached what looks like a permanently high plateau." 
         --Irving Fisher, Professor of Economics, Yale University, 1929. 

    "The concept is interesting and well-formed, but in order to earn better than a 'C,' the idea must be feasible."  --A Yale University management professor in response to Fred Smith's paper proposing reliable overnight delivery service. Smith went on to found Federal Express Corp. 

"This 'telephone' has too many shortcomings to be seriously considered as a means of communication. The device is inherently of no value to us."  -Western Union internal memo, 1876. 


"So we went to Atari and said, 'Hey, we've got this amazing thing, even built with some of your parts, and what do you think about funding us? Or, we' ll give it to you. We just want to do it. Pay our salary, we'll come work for you.' And, they said, 'No.' So then, we went to Hewlett-Packard, and they said, 'Hey, we don't need you. You haven't got through college yet.'"  --Apple Computer Inc. founder Steve Jobs on attempts to get Atari and HP interested in his and Steve Wozniak's personal computer. 

  "We don't like their sound, and guitar music is on the way out." 
            --Decca Recording Co. rejecting the Beatles, 1962. 

So much for listening to the 'experts” right? I think they perhaps just didn't have the whole “Big Picture' in mind!

Advent―time of waiting, expectation, ...yearning! It is also a time when we repent, (that's why purple is the color, same as lent!) so that we can properly behold the Newborn King!

The first candle is traditionally the candle of Hope (or in some traditions, Prophecy). There are a few different traditions for the meaning of the advent candles. The most familiar is Hope, Joy, Love, Peace. There is also Prophecy, Shepherds, Bethlehem, and Angel. You see how each is an aspect of the Christmas story :D

fortunately, the prophet Isaiah did NOT turn out to be like that Decca Records executive!

Isaiah prophet during, some of the hardest times the Hebrew people endured. There were two eras in their history that they commemorate in worship on a regular basis. One is the Exodus, led by Moses, (including the Passover meal, which we commemorate with Communion) and the other is the Babylonian Exile. This was a time of about 70 years, that began nearly 600 years before the time of Jesus. Their homeland was embattled, their Temple destroyed, the temple dedicated by King David and constructed by his son Solomon. The belief was that God resides in the Temple in the Ark of the Covenant, and so with it's destruction, God had no home, they were exiled and had no home and so were completely lost without even God!

Isaiah is praying, prophesying that God would come in PERSON! To right the wrongs. To free those in exile, under the thumb of an oppressive foreign government.

Hard for us in US to imagine this...but I think in some ways we are oppressed...by a culture of advertising, of wanting more and giving less, by a culture that tells us over & over! that the wants of an individual...that “MY' wants are more important than the needs of those around me. And it's pervasive, it's hard to resist this! People want to be liked, to be popular, to have nice things, to go to fun places. But truly I believe that the commercialism of our times is a 'false prophet”.

Isaiah's reminder that God did “Awesome things that we did not look for..” what a message of hope this is. God does things that we don't even expect! “no one has seen a God like you..” We are reminded through these words that God is never absent, has never abandoned god's people, even when everything seems hopeless. That God will come down, to be with God's own people.. Isaiah's writings contain many prophecies of Jesus, including those of the virgin birth, as well as visions of the 'suffering servant'. All of these were recorded hundreds of years before Jesus' time.

Our new testament lesson comes from the Apostle Paul. This is from his letter to the church in Corinth.

(READ NT LESSON)

God is faithful....and will come back again!

If Paul viewed his churches as his children, Corinth was 'the wild child'. It was a seaport with lots of diversity of peoples and activities, most of those activities were not exactly wholesome!
And within this church were lots of opinions, many of which were NOT in line with good Christian teachings! Paul later in this letter rebukes folks especially for their 'puffed up” attitudes, it would seem there was quite a bit of 'holier than thou”. (some of those 'experts” again!) But he is starting off by recounting their blessings, and they did have many!

In this passage Paul is speaking to the church as a whole..the pronoun “you” in the original language is plural pronoun. So Paul is writing to them as a community. Later on he will address issues that some individuals have, but he is speaking to them as a whole, about what they have and what they do that is good and right! Because they are better together than they are as individuals. The prophecies OT and New are given to people IN community. Because God created us to be together with God and with each other.
Because we each have different gifts and skills and when we put them together we can accomplish some amazing things!

Last week our church hosted a Community-Wide service. We had folks here from a total of 7 churches, including at least 2 African-American churches. We had good worship time together and most everyone had some snacks after, and best of all, folks lingered downstairs, getting to know one another. There was a real effort to promote Christian community and there were some great ideas for ways to continue and grow this kind of activity. By finding common ground, we can celebrate our diversity while intentionally spend time to get to know each other. We can then look past the outward differences and see what's important to us! We can therefore work together to help break some of the divisions in our city and beyond.

Of course this week the news has been full of the racial problems. I do not want to start any debates, all of us together could not solve this problem! But maybe, together we can do some good!
But I came across a statement posted online by a young man named Benjamin Watson. He is an NFL player in New Orleans, and I want to share what he said,.
At some point while I was playing or preparing to play Monday Night Football, the news broke about the Ferguson Decision. After trying to figure out how I felt, I decided to write it down. Here are my thoughts:

I'M ANGRY because the stories of injustice that have been passed down for generations seem to be continuing before our very eyes.

I'M FRUSTRATED, because pop culture, music and movies glorify these types of police citizen altercations and promote an invincible attitude that continues to get young men killed in real life, away from safety movie sets and music studios.

I'M FEARFUL because in the back of my mind I know that although I'm a law abiding citizen I could still be looked upon as a "threat" to those who don't know me. So I will continue to have to go the extra mile to earn the benefit of the doubt.

I'M EMBARRASSED because the looting, violent protests, and law breaking only confirm, and in the minds of many, validate, the stereotypes and thus the inferior treatment.

I'M SAD, because another young life was lost from his family, the racial divide has widened, a community is in shambles, accusations, insensitivity hurt and hatred are boiling over, and we may never know the truth about what happened that day.

I'M SYMPATHETIC, because I wasn't there so I don't know exactly what happened. Maybe Darren Wilson acted within his rights and duty as an officer of the law and killed Michael Brown in self defense like any of us would in the circumstance. Now he has to fear the backlash against himself and his loved ones when he was only doing his job. What a horrible thing to endure. OR maybe he provoked Michael and ignited the series of events that led to him eventually murdering the young man to prove a point.

I'M OFFENDED, because of the insulting comments I've seen that are not only insensitive but dismissive to the painful experiences of others.

I'M CONFUSED, because I don't know why it's so hard to obey a policeman. You will not win!!! And I don't know why some policeman abuse their power. Power is a responsibility, not a weapon to brandish and lord over the populace.

I'M INTROSPECTIVE, because sometimes I want to take "our" side without looking at the facts in situations like these. Sometimes I feel like it's us against them. Sometimes I'm just as prejudiced as people I point fingers at. And that's not right. How can I look at white skin and make assumptions but not want assumptions made about me? That's not right.

I'M HOPELESS, because I've lived long enough to expect things like this to continue to happen. I'm not surprised and at some point my little children are going to inherit the weight of being a minority and all that it entails.

I'M HOPEFUL, because I know that while we still have race issues in America, we enjoy a much different normal than those of our parents and grandparents. I see it in my personal relationships with teammates, friends and mentors. And it's a beautiful thing.

I'M ENCOURAGED, because ultimately the problem is not a SKIN problem, it is a SIN problem. SIN is the reason we rebel against authority. SIN is the reason we abuse our authority. SIN is the reason we are racist, prejudiced and lie to cover for our own. SIN is the reason we riot, loot and burn. BUT I'M ENCOURAGED because God has provided a solution for sin through the his son Jesus and with it, a transformed heart and mind. One that's capable of looking past the outward and seeing what's truly important in every human being. The cure for the Michael Brown, Trayvon Martin, Tamir Rice and Eric Garner tragedies is not education or exposure. It's the Gospel. So, finally, I'M ENCOURAGED because the Gospel gives mankind hope.”

Hope...
Benjamin Watson reminds all of us of the hope we have this season. He said later on CNN, and I believe his lessons, his wisdom pertains to many situations;

He said the key is to get past that first level of emotion. You have to understand why you are angry, he said.

And then take it a step further.
We need to understand the other side brings his own experiences to each situation.
"It's really important that we take a step back sometimes and think about the other side before we make accusations and assumptions," he said.

We need to step back and think about the other side. We all want things neat and tidy and to OUR expectations. We want the world to turn according to our own direction. But if we step back and think about the other side, that we have a variety of peoples and experiences. Not all are what WE would live, but maybe if we listen to each other's stories we will better understand. And when we strive to understand, we are better people, and better followers of Christ.

thru Advent and Christmas, we look at prophecies of God, we hear the words of the prophets, who wrote of the One in whom we Hope, the one who brings joy, love, peace, Emmanuel, God within. Yes God within, we each have Jesus inside of us, and Jesus is in others, too! can we see Jesus in each other? God created all kinds of people...and God came to live with and within God's own creation. And even us....Let us love and live better today as we wait in hope for the coming Christ Child!




Friday, October 24, 2014

another Friday Five from RevGalBlogPals

First, Sweet or Salty? Or both? Describe that gotta-have-it treat. (It can be healthy or paleo-friendly, or decadent. We won’t judge!)

sweet...(we are what we eat, right?-laughing) 
the gotta-have-it treat for me is chocolate ice cream, or being a Wisconsin gal, Frozen custard! With hot fudge, and oreo crumbles. Or mini choc. chips. Or a brownie....if I am going for it, I am going for decadence!

  1. Self-control: How do you help yourself stay strong with the temptation of All That Sugar?
Self-control? What is that? Seriously, this is a struggle and I have worked hard on it. Small portions, savored. Reminding myself of just HOW many calories/fat grams are in that decadent dessert.

  1. Have you successfully cut (or decreased) sugar out of your diet? How did you do it?
    Decreased yes. I have some good quality treat, and try to eat it slowly, mindful of the aroma, flavor, texture.
  1. What’s one sweet you won’t do without. Ever.
    Dark chocolate. Preferably Dove. But a Hershey's with almonds works in an emergency!
  1. Just for fun: if you were a candy bar, which one would you be?
    Snickers or Hershey's with almonds, sweet and nutty ;)


Friday, October 10, 2014

Friday Five (from RevGalBlogPals)

  1. How do you sign off in your emails, professional and personally? For example, you say “Blessings”,
    “Take Care”, “Remember, the Devil is watching you” (o.k. just kidding on that one.) Let us know and why…
Professional emails: Shalom, Pastor Carol, Title & church
Personal emails sig is “Save the Earth-it's the only planet with Chocolate!”

  1. If you were an animal TODAY, what is it and why?
    A) Cat, because i need more SLEEP! how DO they sleep so much?!  and wake up alert?! 
  1. If you get snarky, what triggers it? If you don’t get snarky, please, what is the secret?
    Stupidity in various forms...and I try NOT to post snark, because it doesn't do much good-it won't change the idiocy, and negativity is NOT what Jesus would do....BUT a couple weeks ago when a friend posted an inspirational video of a male gymnast, someone else commented he wished it was a vid of a chick....and i HAD to reply "yes, because nowhere on the internet is there any video of a scantily dressed 'chick' moving in provocative manner." and i did get a lot of 'likes' on that. ;)
  1. Look up from your computer/tablet/phone screen. What is the first favorite thing your eyes land on. Describe it. 
    Our cat..Ashley, who is ash grey tabby with gold eyes and some calico markings on her feet and tummy. She is 7 pounds of attitude! She growls at thunderstorms and UPS trucks!
  1. Do you have a favorite pair of socks? Tell us about them!
    no fave sox.....BUT I was just thinking last night (when I couldn't sleep) I need some good soft sleep sox!