How Rude!

August 28, 2016 Practicing Love: How Rude! Pastor Carol P. Taylor

We're working thru the aspects of Love as depicted in 1 Corinthians 13.

I must confess, this series on Practicing Love has got me thinking! One would think this morning's theme, Love is not rude, would be a piece of cake for us all!  We're from the MIDWEST! We are polite! Well unless someone cuts us off at the stoplight...

“Love is not rude” 1 Corinthians 13:5a

5  It does not dishonor others, NIV

5  does not behave rudely, NRSV?

5  love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; GNT

hmm, well irritable...yes sometimes..(this morning in fact when I overslept!). So again, we are looking at the Practice of Love. Why 'Practice”? Because sometimes we have to work at sharing the Love of God as well as we should!

Scripture Luke 17:11-19

11  Now on his way to Jerusalem,  Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee.  12  As he was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy[b]  met him. They stood at a distance  13  and called out in a loud voice, “Jesus, Master,  have pity on us!”

14  When he saw them, he said,  “Go, show yourselves to the priests.”  And as they went, they were cleansed.

15  One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God  in a loud voice.  16  He threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him―and he was a Samaritan.

17  Jesus asked,  “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?18  Has no one returned to give praise to God except this foreigner?”19  Then he said to him,  “Rise and go; your faith has made you well.”

17:12  lepers.  People with leprosy were required by law to keep away from healthy people (Lev. 13:46); these came as close as they dared and called out loudly.

Rules about leprosy,.. which may or may not have actually been “Hansen's disease! Any skin disease one was isolated until examination. Since skin conditions include disease and various sort of rashes. A rash that is caused by an allergy may look and feel terrible! But it's not contagious. It may well look like a condition that is contagious. So in this time, anyone with a skin condition was considered 'unclean', that is to be contagious or not allowed to interact with others.

The Samaritans thought of themselves as Jews - descendants of Joseph's line instead of Judah's, worshiping at the "true" center of faith at Mt. Gerizim - but Jews nonetheless. The rest of Judaism branded Samaritans as "Gentiles" - lumping them in with all the other pagan religions.

as they went.  Jesus’ command, when nothing had yet happened to the men, was a test of faith. They were healed as they went in obedience to Jesus’ word. They obeyed, they said yes, they followed his command and were healed as they went along.

The 10th leper, the samaritan, He was an outsider –outsider among outsiders! Yet he's the one who “saw' that he was healed as he went along and he turned back!

The health the Samaritan leper celebrates at Jesus' feet is a feeling of wholeness he has never before experienced. It is something no priest, no doctor, could measure or prescribe. The Samaritan returns to the source of his healing at Jesus' feet to offer praises of thanksgiving "with a loud voice." He whoops it up in joy!

 if all 10 were cured, then they all could have “seen” this much. What this one leper “sees,” then, is something more. We should recall that in Greek, the same term is used for “healing” as is used for “salvation.” This leper’s eyes are opened to the fact that he is not only “healed,” but “saved” as well.

Accordingly, he “returns” to Jesus and begins “praising” or “glorifying” God.

In these times, if you had any sort of illness, injury or hard times, it was believed to be due to some sort of sin in your life. Remember the disciples asked Jesus about the man born blind, did he sin or his parents? And what was JC response? Neither! This is for God's glory, and he healed him.

The word in the Bible for healing ” is Sozo. (sode'-zo) it means to be saved for eternity, but it means more than that. Remember the languages of this time had fewer words than our modern English, so each word had more than one meaning, actually layers of meaning. So looking at the layers of meaning of these words adds tremendously to our understanding of the Bible. Sozo, this great word, means to be saved for eternity. It also means to be protected or saved from danger, to be healed, made well, to be restored to health and wholeness. Sozo brings shalom! The perfect healing, wholeness and protection of God. When Jesus talked about the Kingdom of God, Shalom is what he meant!

This is what this Samaritan Leper discovered and and why he came back, praising God and worshiped at Jesus' feet. For when we have that powerful love and wholeness that only comes from God, it is only right to praise and worship, in fact I believe we are not completely healed until we DO! And then carry that love, and wholeness to others, in the Name of the One who loves and heals and helps us. .

This Samaritan Leper, an outsider among outsiders, was the only one of the 10 to get it, to understand that he was not just free of his skin disease, but that he was completely free of all that kept him from God and from others. He would never again be an outsider

Have you ever felt like an outsider?

Being the one of the last picked for the team? Being different from your friends, for whatever reason? We've all felt that way on some level, some because of family circumstances, or having a job that required night work, or not having a job. Maybe you had a health issue that affects your abilities, but isn't immediately obvious to others, so you might be called lazy when you are trying to get some needed rest?! How RUDE!

We all have STUFF, everyone of us has something we have had to deal with over the years. And sometimes we act out because of our stuff. We are irritible, or unloving.. And sometimes others act out -because of their stuff.

practice of love.... why call it 'practice'? Because living in love in faith, does not always come naturally to most of us. We may tend to react badly to others' bad behaviour. If someone yells, you may want to yell back. We have to think about how to react and even practice keeping our cool when things-and people- going bonkers, are acting out because of their stuff!

And we need to practice our faith life too. Worship, bible time, prayer, these are all ways to help us stay connected to Our Loving Lord, When we stay connected, then we are more likely to hear, to discern what we are being led to. We begin meetings with prayer, because it's a way for us to help center ourselves and focus on the reason we are here at a church meeting, to serve! Not for ourselves, but to serve!

And practice helps us to know when to say YES when there is an opportunity to reach out to others!

One of the best things about this church and you all, is the heart for mission and outreach. We say yes! We're quick to help when there is a need. We have a lot of missions that we help financially, enough that we have to be somewhat selective with our resources! I know of churches that are not particularly generous in their support of missions.. Need I say that those churches are struggling? In many ways! I confess to a fair amount of pride in the work that we do together with other churches! We take an active role in Caritas, with a few members who alternate attending their monthly meetings. We partner with a couple other churches during our week to host HOF, the local homeless ministry, which is supported by many churches in the area. John Pickart is current board chair of HOF. He also works closely with Meals on Wheels, which many of you help deliver!

And of course, we worked together with Faith Works and a dozen or so churches on the book bag bash. I' suspect you get tired of my going on about that, but it's a powerful example of God can do when a few people say YES to an opportunity to serve! And when we do, we make a difference.

Author Brennan Manning:

The greatest need for our time is for the church to become what it has seldom been: the body of Christ with its face to the world, loving others regardless of religion or culture, pouring itself out in a life of service, offering hope to a frightened world, and presenting itself as a real alternative to the existing arrangement.

This week, I was with a friend who works for a Catholic ministry. It's called Dismus Ministry and they give bibles and other materials to people incarcerated across the country. Dismus started small, and has grown to delivering materials and support in all 50 states, ministering both to the prisoners and the chaplains.  

Ron Zeilinger Sismus Minstry

THis week, prepping for today, our musician decided to play "What Wondrous Love is This?" as special music. 

Then yesterday, I looked for information about this ministry, the very first thing I found was a blog post...(a blog is an online journal) by Ron Z, a post from more than 3 years ago, in which he referneced “What Wondrous Love Is This?” 

NOT a coincidence! 

When requested by prison chaplains for their Catholic inmates, Dismas Ministry distributes free Scripture and faith resources, including Bibles, a unique prayer book for and by inmates, and faith study materials intended to support the faith-based rehabilitation of inmates. A goal is to provide the foundation for a healthy spiritual life that will serve them whether they remain behind bars or are eventually released.

“It tells them how to attend Mass, how to go to confession, how to pray the rosary, how to pray the stations, all of those different things,” Zeilinger explained about the material, which also includes a section on saints who also were incarcerated during their life.

“It’s wonderful stories of saints who you wouldn’t even imagine … being incarcerated for a period of time in their lives,” he said, naming St. Francis of Assisi, St. Maximilian Kolbe, and St. Peter and St. Paul. “Those are very fascinating stories for the men and women, and they really appreciate that there were these wonderful friends of God who had that prison experience.”

Despite being a prison ministry, Dismas does not focus solely on the needs of inmates. Ron emphasizes that Dismas Ministry “puts victims central.” “Sometimes inmates say ‘my crime is minor’ and they have not thought about how their crime impacted other people, including themselves and their own families. There are victims to all crimes. We need to be aware of and attentive to how to make amends and we do that by teaching scripture.” Ron notes that Old Testament stories like that of Jacob and Esau are powerful teachings on transgression and reconciliation. The philosophy of restorative justice is woven into many of the Dismas materials and into its very mission. As Ron says, when you think about it, “The whole light and ministry of Jesus is one act of restorative justice. Jesus is the mediator, the bridge, in restoring the broken relationship between God and humanity.”

the perfect healing, the Sozo, of Jesus encompasses this restoration that Dismus Ministry is teaching. Ron Zeilinger is a powerful example of someone who said YES to a chance to serve.

In researching him, the first thing I came across was actually an older blog post...a blog is an internet journal. “web log” that folks post online. I happened across this entry from Holy week, 3 years ago. Dismus Ministry is named for the “good thief” of the crucifixion story. Jesus was crucified between 2 criminals. One hurled insults at Him, the other asked, “remember me when you come into your kingdom” and Jesus replied, “today you will be with me in paradise!”

“The things that unfolded on the cross between this “good thief” as he has been called traditionally and Jesus is truly remarkable. The entire passage of Luke 23: 33-43 is so profound in meaning that centuries of reflection by many holy people have not plumbed the depths of it.

The words and melody of the great American southern hymn “What Wondrous Love Is This?” keeps running through my mind. It is wondrous that God went to such stupendous lengths to reveal to us the infinite, unconditional love that He has for us fumbling human beings.

If Dismas can make it into the kingdom as the saint of the last minute rescue, there is always hope for the likes of us too. That is why we call ourselves in this prison ministry business “messengers of hope.”

My hope for everyone is that hope abounds in your lives as Holy Week unfolds in all its wondrous love.”

My hope and prayer is that hope abounds in your lives always, that each of us finds an aspect of that perfect love and life from Jesus Christ, that we praise and worship well, and that we continue to reach out in that love to share the Hope, healing, wholeness and saving Grace of Jesus, today and everyday. Amen.  

Niagara Vacation photos

In June, my husband and I spent 2 days and nights at Niagara Falls Ontario. It was our first time in Canada, and we had a wonderful time. Niagara Falls is awe-inspiring. It is SO big...I took hundreds of photos while we were there, and the best photo or video does not truly do justice to the immense size and power of the falls. 

Our hotel overlooked the falls-a dream come true! and we could open a small screened window, so I could hear the sound of the falls as we fell asleep. 
The first evening there we watched intense lightning over the river above the falls. During the afternoon, there was a rainbow over the falls moving as the sun moves across the sky. I got up early to see and take pics of sunrise, and we saw the colored lights shining on the falls at night. There was a constant show of beauty and nature's power. 

Psalm 42 verses 7-8 

 Deep calls to deep
    in the roar of your waterfalls;
all your waves and breakers
    have swept over me.

 By day the Lord directs his love,
    at night his song is with me—
    a prayer to the God of my life.

Kindling Kindness

Sermon given at United Church of Beloit July 31, 2016

July 31, 2016               Kindling Kindness           Pastor Carol P. Taylor

Ephesians 4:28-32

29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another,forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Sermon series on Love...as depicted in 1 Corinthians chapter 13.

this week's focus is Love is Kind.

I've been blessed this summer to officiate at 2 weddings. Both couples chose this passage as their scripture.

Specifically vss 4-8. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. Amen.

This describes the love of God, a perfect love. This is what we hope for, yearn for. CS Lewis wrote there's a “God Shaped Hole' within our hearts...it's where we yearn for that perfect love. We humans, while created in the image of God, are not perfect, so often times we love imperfectly. But we can aspire to love well, to love more perfectly. We can focus on what we love about each other, in marriage, in our families and at work and in the world! We can focus on the positive and set aside the rest. That's not always easy, but it is always worth while!

At the end of the wedding service I say.... Go forth from this place with the blessing of Christ's church. Be loving, patient and kind. And above all, forgive one another as Christ has forgiven you. This is based on the Ephesians passage.

this week's focus is Love is Kind. What does it mean to be kind?

Kindness is Paying attention to other people,

Their feelings, and what they need.

The Ephesians verses are part of a section wherein the readers..listeners are being reminded to live in the Word of God. The city of Ephesus in Bible times was a center for travel and commerce. It was a large city, on a harbor, with many temples to the various Greco-Roman gods and goddesses, especially Diana, Goddess of the hunt and moon. This chapter of the Epistle is a reminder to live NOT as those do who worship the pagan gods and goddesses! That those who follow the One true God, and God's son, can live in better ways, to honor God and each other!

Do not let Unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but what is helpful to build up! That's a strong message right there, isn't it!? Not griping and complaining but building up, helping, not tearing down. Get rid of bitterness, rage, anger...slander and malice. (and this was written 2000 years ago!)

Be kind and compassionate...forgiving one another.

These are things to strive towards. We aspire to be all these things, in order to live out that Divine Love that we know! It isn't always easy. It comes more naturally to many of us to gripe, or to put down someone else. But having compassion and care and kindness, goes so much further! (honey, not vinegar!)

In our passage, when it says Do not grieve the Holy Spirit, it means to not act out in ways that are NOT of God, in ways that are like the pagans. The Holy Spirit is one of the Trinity, Father, Son and Holy Spirit or Holy Ghost. We are given the Spirit by Jesus when we have accepted him as Lord and Savior. The Spirit guides and empowers us! But acting in ways that are not Christ like cause grief. I find it interesting that the bible calls it grief. Not anger...

When I was a kid and did something wrong, and got caught...I remember my Mom would yell, rant and rave. My Dad though, never yelled. He was sad when I acted out, he was pained.... and that, so much more than my moms anger, made me straighten up and fly right, I would do anything to keep from seeing that grief in my Dad's eyes... So it is with the Holy Spirit, when we are unkind and impatient and unforgiving.

So how do we Kindle Kindness in ourselves and others. Because when we are kind to one another, it can spread! There are lots of ways we can be kind. It doesn't have to be some huge thing, little kindnesses count here! Sometimes a gesture that seems small can have a big effect!
And kindness has benefits to us as well as those to whom we are kind. Psychologists have found that there are emotional and even physical benefits, when we exercise kindness. Physical effects of kindness:
(Allan Luks and Peggy Payne have identified some of the physical effects of kindness in their publication "The Healing Power of Doing Good". }

These effects can include a greater sense of calmness and relaxation, which may also ease pain (from headaches to back pain) and may even help lower high blood pressure. They also suggest that other effects of kindness may increase your energy level and can even reduce excessive stomach acid. Meditating on a compassionate approach to others shifts resting brain activation to the left hemisphere, a region associated with happiness, and boosts immune functions.

It almost sounds like a commercial for a magic pill doesn't it?! Wow how can I get some of this stuff!

So let's think about how to cultivate this within ourselves!

Author Richard Rohr shared a short meditation recently on his website.

Kindness..Loving Kindness as the Bible calls it....The quality is already within you, but if you don't choose daily and deliberately to practice loving kindness, it is unlikely that a year from now you will be any more loving.

Begin by finding the place of loving kindness inside your heart (Christians might call this the indwelling Spirit).

Drawing upon this source of love, bring to mind someone you deeply care about, and send loving kindness toward them.

Now direct this love toward a casual friend or colleague, someone just beyond your inner circle.

Continue drawing from your inner source of loving kindness and let it flow toward someone about whom you feel neutral or indifferent, a stranger.

Remember someone who has hurt you or someone you struggle to like. Bless them. Send them your love.

Gather all these people and yourself into the stream of love and hold them here for a few moments.

Finally, let the flow of loving kindness widen to encompass all beings in the universe.

This practice can help you know--in your mind, heart, and body--that love is not determined by the worthiness of the object. Love is determined by the giver of the love. You are simply a conduit for the inflow and outflow of love.

Now that we've practiced this inwardly, it's time to share it outwardly.

“Every human interaction offers you the chance to make things better or to make things worse.” ― Barbara Brown Taylor

Many things we can do to show kindness. Hold a door, give a ride, Take out the trash without being asked! Smile and say hello to the other people taking a walk near the river...write a note or call someone you haven't talked to in a while.

at Aldi's leave your quarter in the cart for the next person, Letting the person with 3 items check out ahead of you. And be kind to the clerk while you are at it! (trust me, I worked retail, being kind to retail workers and wait staff is one of the biggest kindnesses you can practice!}

again... Barbara Brown Taylor calls this acknowledging the humanity of someone in these everyday interactions the ‘practice of encountering others’. Here’s her encouragement of this as a spiritual practice: ‘the next time you go to the grocery store, try engaging the cashier. You don’t have to invite her home for lunch or anything, but take a look at her face while she is trying to find arugula on her laminated list of produce.’ When the cashier looks at you while handing you your change, ‘all that if required of you is to look back’, she says. ‘Just meet her eyes for a second when you say thanks. Sometimes that is all another person needs to know she has been seen.’

And ask 'how are you?” then just sit and listen. People today are hungry for companionship. Our society now moves so fast, we so rarely make time to just sit and chat, to really listen to one another. Listening -really listening, means to hear what the other is saying, not just thinking about what my own response is going to be as soon as they stop to take a breath...to listen. And affirm what the other is saying, saying something like “it sounds like you are frustrated.” without launching into our own tale of woe. That can wait.

To be kind to others, especially someone we don't know, is living out our faith, living out the Love of God.

We love, because God first loved us. Love is a gift from God. When we act in loving kindness and show our love & compassion for others, we are living as God wants us to. We are giving thanks for the gifts of life and love and sharing those gifts with others. Because to love means to want to give. Just as God so loved the world, God gave his only Son, Jesus. Love and giving just naturally go together.

And Jesus, gave His live, for each of us. For even the ones we don't know ...yet.

So we can give a smile, a few minutes of our time, to bring loving kindness into someone's day. If we practice kindness every day, we may kindle kindness in others as well. Kindness could spread! May it be so!

Let us pray...

Loving God, guide us, through your Spirit to cultivate and practice kindness every day, sharing your Love, compassion, and forgiveness as we do. In Jesus Name, Amen.