Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts
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Sunday, November 24, 2019

Gathered and Grateful

 November 24 2019    Gathered and Grateful     Pastor Carol P. Taylor


Psalm 67

For the director of music. With stringed instruments. A psalm. A song.

1 May God be gracious to us and bless us
    and make his face shine on us—[b]
2 so that your ways may be known on earth,
    your salvation among all nations.
3 May the peoples praise you, God;
    may all the peoples praise you.
4 May the nations be glad and sing for joy,
    for you rule the peoples with equity
    and guide the nations of the earth.
5 May the peoples praise you, God;
    may all the peoples praise you.
6 The land yields its harvest;
    God, our God, blesses us.
7 May God bless us still,
    so that all the ends of the earth will fear him.

This is most likely composed by David the great king of the Hebrew people, ancestor of Jesus. It was a hymn of deep praise..remember the Psalms were written to be sung! 
Note that it begins and ends with “Us” God Bless US...then moves to addressing God. it’s gathering the thoughts of the assembled people to remember their purpose..to worship and praise. “We gather together…” 
Then we worship! The focus is now on God--The God of justice, mercy, and kindness, and bountiful harvest! Nations in the Psalm...means all people...it’s sometimes translated gathered nations...peoples brought together. 

This is a recurring theme in the bible..one of the reasons that some of us pastors here in Beloit work to bring other churches together, through our work with organizations, and with our Community thanksgiving services that we began 5 or 6 years ago, and through the Lenten worship services. Real community happens when we begin to build relationships. We build relationships when we remember that each of us is a child of God. Sometimes on the surface we may not seem to be alike, but once we begin to get to know each other, we do have more in common than not. 

This week some of us were talking about how one can feel close to God in nature. Seeing the beauty and variety of nature is deeply inspiring. 

God loves and cares for all of God's creation, and provides abundantly!! To love means to give! 

And so we remember and honor..and revere God so that all the peoples of the world may know, and worship God as well! 

Psalms are also a model of prayer for us today :D  

In our Sunday morning bible study we’ve been studying the Lord’s prayer, which Jesus taught us to pray.. This came about because in our discussions for several weeks in a row the topic of prayer came up. Over the years I have done many types of Bible study and discussion, including studies on prayer… and it’s a topic that nearly everyone can use more of! We all need prayer, we all can pray, and -if we’re honest with ourselves, we all feel that we could pray more effectively, more deeply. The Lords’ prayer, that we pray every Sunday is indeed a model prayer. Jesus modeled prayer in other ways too, especially in the Gospel of John chapter 17. I commend you to read this whole chapter...jesus prays first for himself, then for his disciples, then for all believers. Let’s look at that prayer for all….


John 17  Jesus Prays for All Believers
20 “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, 21 that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one— 23 I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.

You see how Jesus’ prayer ‘spreads out?” himself, then the disciples, then those who come to believe through the message shared by the disciples! “That all may be one”  

Jesus, God’s own son, God personified, here on earth in the flesh (Incarnate) prays for all believers throughout the world be ONE. to be united...the apostle paul likened the body of believers to the human body, that each of us is an essential part...a hand, an eye, an ear, each serving their very own purpose and working together with all the other parts. 

Community and prayer--major themes in Scripture..

THis week some of us were talking about feeling close to God in nature…We seem to feel more connected...there’s science behind that...we actually do feel better due to fresh air, chemicals released by plants & trees into the air, the effect of natural light and even the scents of flowers, grass and so on. The sights of sky, patterns in clouds and water also stimulate areas of the brain in beneficial ways. 

Nature inspires us, helps us to be one with God. 

with the inspiration of nature, how God creates so much variety and it all works together. Variety-diversity in creation is important and necessary! When we look at the big picture of nature, we begin to understand that diversity is essential to God’s plan. God always sees the big picture! 

God’s creative expression and love of variety extends to humans too. 

But over history, we humans have struggled with that variety. 

that was a self protection back when humans were first on the earth! But now with better understanding, we are learning that it takes diversity to make up a whole--in nature and in people!

So all peoples...all gathered nations are to be brought to know and love God through Jesus.  And Jesus prays for us to be united--to be ONE as he and God are one.   

This weekend is the debut of the new movie about Mr Rogers, starring Tom Hanks. Fred Rogers was an ordained Presbyterian minister, and collaborated with child psychologist Margaret McFarland. The program Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, was critically acclaimed for focusing on emphasized young children's social and emotional needs, handling topics such as death, sibling rivalry, school enrollment, and divorce.
Rogers TV work was his pulpit! he once said his ministry was the "broadcasting of grace throughout the land." He taught children (and the grownups who watched) that you are loved just the way you are. and that so is everyone else. He celebrated cultural diversity. 

Rogers seldom spoke about his faith on air. He believed that teaching through example could be just as powerful as preaching.
I personally think it may be MORE powerful! Sharing gratitude, finding even one little thing we have in common at this moment..is building relationships, sharing love and compassion, that is a part of living out our faith.
Rogers also used the medium of television very well, speaking directly into the camera, so that he came across speaking directly to his young audience. Never speaking down to them, never proseltyzing, just saying ‘Isn’t this something special to share right now?” reaching out nicely, to make a connection, even thru the camera. He shared his values of kindness, and empathy and caring for others. 
Actor Tom Hanks, who portrays Mr Rogers, is also widely known as a nice person, he readily admits to not being perfect, but says…”I feel as though I am a joyful person. And I think if I'm nice, it's because I am trying to share a sense of joy that I find a natural commodity. And why not? Why not have a good time? Why not bring a little bit of joy from anything from a long plane ride, to a short elevator ride, to an exchange over an extra-large, venti-sized latte in line at your local coffee place? To me, it's the natural order of things”
Sharing Joy, by just being nice, can be a way of praising God, who is the source of our joy. It’s a way of connecting and sharing our faith...of telling others that they are accepted and even loved just as they are--through the Love of the God of all creation. We know this because of Jesus, and the gift of the Holy Spirit. 
As we gather together, at our Community service this evening, or to assist with family promise, at our Thanksgiving tables...let us remember God’s love and beauty, for all of creation, and that God’s own son prays that we might be One.

In our Psalm, did you hear at the beginning the echo of the ‘blessing” or benediction? From the book of Numbers, chap 6..
Thus you shall bless the Israelites: You shall say to them,
24  The Lord bless you and keep you;
25  the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you;
26  the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace. 
The Psalm echoes this deliberately, this is a prayer of blessing from the time of Moses...Psalmist is sharing the history of the Hebrew people, reminding them that God ishas been with them always!  And here’s a tidbit...the phrase translated ‘lift up his countenance..” has an image associated with it...of holding a baby up in the air with joy!! 
We are ALL --every human on earth, every age, size, ethnicity, ability, every single one of us...God’s children, being held with joy! Let us remember, savor, and pray this love, so that we LIVE it, every day. 
Let’s sing together For the Beauty of the Earth

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Bountiful Blessings



This is the altar at my church, United Church of Beloit (Wisconsin) decorated for fall. An anonymous talented person* brought the mums, gourds, and basket decorations and arranged them. Doesn't it look great? It's a lovely reminder of how blessed we are. Most of us have more than enough to eat, a place to live, a vehicle, and a job or a retirement income. I pray we who do have enough are generous to help our neighbors in need, by donating our time and/or monetary gifts to organizations who help our neighbors. 

*Pretty sure the arrangement was made by the Sr. Minister's wife, Joanne :) 

Sunday, November 17, 2013

November 17, 2013 The Ripple Effect: Giving Thanks


Psalm 100
Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth!
2 Serve the Lord with gladness!
Come into his presence with singing!
3 Know that the Lord, he is God!
It is he who made us, and we are his;
we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.
4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving,
and his courts with praise!
Give thanks to him; bless his name!
5 For the Lord is good;
his steadfast love endures forever,
and his faithfulness to all generations.

Philippians 4:4-13
4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable―if anything is excellent or praiseworthy―think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me―put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
10 I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it.11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

Heard a cute story about the habit of saying Grace before a meal:
PASTOR: Now, Simone, tell me frankly, do you say prayers before eating?
SIMONE: No ma'am, I don't have to, my Mom is a good cook.

(Even though we in this church are all good cooks, we will have our benediction serve as Grace for our turkey dinner!)


This is the final in my sermon series called the ripple effect ...
toss a stone into water and the ripples appear and spread out...sometimes much further than you would imagine! This series has been spread out in part because we had a couple special services recently. The topics have been prayer, bible reading, worship (communion), being together, and today Giving thanks. These are ways in which we can stay in our faith, live our faith and even grow in our faith, to help spread the vision that God has for this church! It's wonderful to say one believes in God and Jesus, but we can do more! Jesus said, “Follow me”. and these practices are how we do better at following. They enable us to do things that ripple out and benefit others..but also enable ripples within ourselves that help us learn and grow in kindness and compassion, to become better human beings and better followers of our loving Lord.

Our passage from Philippians is a prime example.
{READ lesson}

Rejoice in the Lord. No matter what's going on, God is in charge!
You know people will say, 'if God is love, how can this happen...” referring to disasters, illness, sick children. That's a fair question!! Well, if there were no God, there would be only disasters, violence, hatred, illness, devastation. There would be NO joy, no peace, no love, no beauty, no truth-because these are the qualities of God. We only know truth, beauty and joy because of God. Rejoice in the Lord...again I say rejoice.

No matter what is going on in your life, in the world, there is SOMETHING for which to be grateful. There is something that is right, admirable, true, something lovely. Focus on these, give thanks for them and for the ability to perceive them! Give thanks for a bird song and for hearing, for the colors of the sunrise and sunset, and for vision. For the aroma of food cooking, and the ability to smell...See what I mean here? This is how we maintain that attitude of gratitude that Paul is talking about here. And this attitude will help us get through a LOT.

There have been many studies that show that keeping positive thoughts help a person emotionally in many ways. It promotes resilience against stress...can help against depression or anxiety, and can even help a person sleep better! That is what Paul is saying...'the God of peace will be with you” keeping a positive attitude helps us maintain equilibrium even when things are challenging.

That equilibrium can help us to see that when things are falling apart, others are as well. That we are all in the same boat, we are all dealing with STUFF.

Author Anne Lamott says,
“we're all in the same boat. We ALL think we missed school the day that the visiting specialists stopped by our grade school to distribute the pamphlets on what is true, who we are, how we are to live with the great mystery of life, how to come through dark times, how to awaken. We're all sort of winging it, trying to learn self-love and respect, ... and live lives of meaning and joy.”

So we work on holding onto what is true, beautiful, noble, the things that help us remember the qualities of God and that bring us the peace of God.... And that equilibrium can help us to want to reach out! We can share that peace!

Social psychologists are increasingly finding that "pro-social” behavior – including expressing gratitude and giving to others – is key to our psychological well-being. Even how we choose to spend our money affects our health and happiness.

Expressing gratitude confers benefits, so too does giving to others. New research shows that people all around the world --derive more happiness from spending money on others than they do on themselves.

"For the first time, we show that giving away money or spending it on others confers the ...psychological benefit of increasing the giver’s sense of wealth,” says Michael Norton of Harvard Business School and co-author with Elizabeth Dunn of the University of British Columbia of the upcoming book Happy Money: The Science of Smarter Spending. In {several} new studies, Norton and colleagues showed that charitable giving makes people feel wealthier.

This research follows on other work... that shows that giving time to others – from helping with homework to shoveling a neighbors’ driveway – actually makes people feel that they have more time. "In fact, giving time away ...{helps us feel we have MORE time} even more than unexpected windfalls of free time.”

Giving our money helps us to feel wealthier! Giving our time helps us feel that we have more time! Could it be that our Creator God actually MADE us that way? On purpose?

Giving is a huge key to feeling good.....when we bless others, we feel blessed. That is how the Kingdom of God works! We think we have set out to do something for someone else, and we end up feeling good, feeling that we have more time, money and we just feel better about ourselves in general!

So you want to feel realllllllly good?! How about being a blessing to our church!? You can feel more wealthy and feel that you have more time, both! We need both time and talent, and all of us have things we can do to help out.

Here in this church, we are doing wonderful things to bless others, and will continue to do so, even while we are in transition until the new Sr Minister is called here. The Sr Minister is not the only reason the church runs....it's the people! People who are committed to taking care of others, people who know how good it feels to do something, just because we are able to do so!

We give because we can. Because we recognize that we are blessed, and we can share some of those blessings. And we give because God gave...The Eternal God who Is and Was and Ever Shall be....gave God's Only Son-- For each of us! We give because we realize that we are each a child of God, an heir with Jesus Christ! Jesus, who gave ALL for us, the greatest gift of all, and we can do all things through Him, who strengthens us.


A while back, early in our merger process, I shared this quote with you all....and I think it bears repeating.
Author N.T. Wright in his book Simply Christian, writes of what the church can be:

“It’s a place of welcome and laughter, of healing and hope, of friends and family and justice and new life. It’s where the homeless drop in for a bowl of soup and the elderly stop by for a chat. It’s where one group is working to help drug addicts and another is campaigning for social justice. It’s where you’ll find people learning to pray, coming to faith, struggling with temptation, finding new purpose, and getting in touch with a new power to carry out that purpose. It’s where people bring their own small faith and discover, in getting together with others to worship the one true God, that the whole becomes greater than the sum of its parts. No church is like that all the time. But a remarkable number of churches are partly like that for quite a lot of time.”1

This church is partly like that, for part of the time. There is more to do, but we are on our way. I am convinced this vision of what the church can be is part of what we are called to! I was convinced of that early in our merger process, and I am convinced of it today. But I can't do it alone, nor can whomever ends up as our Sr Minister, whenever he/she comes here. It takes ALL of us. And that is who is at work right now. We are becoming that church of vision, even in this time of transition. WOW, that is amazing, it's a gift from God. Let us be generous with OUR gifts today, tomorrow and next year.

The ripples we cast here in UCB are spreading a LONG ways...thru our monetary donations and actions, we in this church are making a big difference in lives in Beloit and beyond. Through Heifer International, which helps families learn to feed themselves and their neighbors. Through other missions, we help disabled people in Mexico, translate the Bible in Mozambique. We gave school supplies to 340 kids here in Beloit, we help educate children in Myanmar. and we are collecting today to help disaster victims in the Philippines. Our ripples are spreading across the globe!

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Mead

How about a group of thoughtful, committed citizens who pray, read our bibles, gather as the Body of Christ to worship and give of ourselves and our gifts? Think of our ripples spreading out... we can help change the world! We can do ALL things through Christ who is our strength!

Let's pray
Gracious God, thank you for creating us to be giving people. Help us to be a blessing today, tomorrow and every day, through this church and in our every day lives.


1 - NT Wright, Simply Christian: Why Christianity Makes Sense, p. 123

Friday, January 22, 2010

quote

quote i just found:
"Let gratitude be the pillow upon which you kneel to say your nightly prayer. And let faith be the bridge you build to overcome evil and welcome good."
— Maya Angelou (Celebrations: Rituals of Peace and Prayer)